Some good young Christian boys recently completed a survey at a site called "Rebelution" about the "stumbling blocks" to being good young Christian boys.
What are those "stumbling blocks"? Well, women of course. In various states of dress and undress. It seems the good young Christian boys are completely without any self-control and really really need good young Christian girls, or really ALL girls, to "dress modestly" so that the good young Christian boys don't have to actually exercise any self-control.
Responses show that:
Thin material is immodest (and goodness knows its cooler than thick material, but you have to sweat sometimes to help the good young Christian boys)
Wearing a tight shirt under an open button-down shirt is immodest
When a girl reaches into her shirt to adjust a bra strap it is a stumbling block
Seeing a girl's chest bounce when she is walking or running is a stumbling block
Seeing a girl stretching (e.g. arching the back, reaching the arms back, and sticking out the chest) is a stumbling block.
A purse with the strap diagonally across the chest draws too much attention to the bust
Immodest clothing is a problem (for you) when a girl in your own family wears it (ewwww)
But in case you think it's just about the clothes, here are a few responses about "attitude" and "posture".
A modestly dressed girl can still be a stumbling block because of her attitude and behavior.
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A modestly dressed girl can still be a stumbling block when she is moving an acting in ways that make it clear that she is not modest at heart. This can inspire thoughts in my mind that tempt me to sin, even though her body is covered.
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If you’re not showing much but still playing the “elusive sexy vixen” then you might as well be wearing a bikini. Because it is very easy to imagine a girl in one.
So you see women and girls, it's your responsibility to dress and act not in a manner that is pleasing to you, but rather to dress and act in a manner that will not tempt these hapless good young Christian boys. It is your job to make yourself sexually undesirable. Slouching, cowering, wearing sweats? Those are good. Standing straight, walking tall, wearing what you like? Not good.
Men already have so much to do, what with running the world and all, they really can't take the added pressure of having to not think about sex when you wear your purse strap across your chest - even though the across the chest position is safer and better for your back.
As one of the respondents put it himself:
The female body is a powerful gift, intended for one man.
Yeah genius, except that it's a gift to herself. To do with as SHE pleases. If you good young Christian boys can’t interact with women without stumbling you should just go sit down in private and leave the rest of society, you know, the part with self-control, to be out in public.
(h/t
Feministe)