September 2003SPEARS: Honestly, I think we should just trust our president in every decision he makes and should just support that, you know, and be faithful in what happens.
CARLSON: Do you trust this president?
SPEARS: Yes, I do.
I have nothing but sympathy for this poor woman. She has never really been made to know her own mind. Quotes like the above show that she is part of the large part of America who has been raised to just listen to authority (be it the president or the pastor) and has NOT been taught to think for herself.
If we want to avoid Britneys, we need to teach children to think critically, to question, to reason, to critically evaluate all the millions of bits of information thrown-up on them each day. Perhaps if Britney had been taught to question more, she may have been able to tell who were her friends and who were hangers-on; she may have sought help earlier in her life.
I hope that she can somehow get the help she needs to start again as a reasoning human being who understands how best to avoid scenes like those plastered on our TVs this morning. I hope she can be a better parent. I hope she can teach her sons what she was not taught: Question everything:
This is what you shall do: love the earth and sun, and animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence towards the people, take off your hat to nothing known or unknown, or to any man or number of men; go freely with the powerful uneducated persons, and with the young, and mothers, of families: read these leaves in the open air every season of every year of your life: re-examine all you have been told at school or church, or in any books, and dismiss whatever insults your soul.” -----Walt Whitman